How to Deal with Bad Cell Phone Etiquette
If you've ever had the pleasure of approaching a person with poor cell phone etiquette, you know that the responses vary greatly. Some people simply don't realize that the topic, volume level, or their distracted nature while talking is bothering anyone, and happily acquiesce. Others react quite angrily and defensively.
Fortunately, there are good ways to approach people about their cell phone etiquette--or lack of it. Just follow these simple tips:
If the Cell Phone Abuser Is a Friend
If the suspect is a friend, simply be straightforward and honest. Tell them what behavior specifically is bothering you, and offer a solution instead of cell phone etiquette lesson. For example, you could say, "Betsy Darling, your phone ringing is pretty distracting. Would you mind turning it off so that we can really enjoy our time together?"
If It’s a Stranger with Poor Etiquette
If it’s a stranger, proceed carefully. You never know when a call might truly be important, so don’t automatically insinuate that the person in question is a jerk. However, if the person is truly being a nuisance (such as talking during a movie or at a concert) be gentle and polite, and offer an alternative. In other words, you could say, "Excuse me, but your conversation is making it hard to hear what’s going on. We'd all appreciate it if you could take your call in the lobby." If you don't feel comfortable approaching a stranger about their cell phone etiquette, go find a manager or usher.
Finally, if the offender is you, don’t get angry next time someone calls you out regarding your poor etiquette. Consider their request and find a way to compromise that works for everyone. (A hint? Ending the phone call is a great compromise!)
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